What do you think of guys who "spoil market"???

last SG · 2003-07-03T00:07:22+00:00

hmmm…..as long as she is unmarried for me….i respect the covenant of marriage.

harryryan SG

well said....^5

evanesence SG

Never try to be the 3rd party... just imagine how things would be if you had a partner and someone just came to snatch him/her away from you...

As for those who's partners had left for someone else..
look more towards the bright side, maybe you would find someone better? Rmb when a door of happiness closes, another opens, but most of the time u are too busy feeling sorry for yourself to realise that... Wink

nefnuy SG

If she leaves you then she feel that he is better (for her) than you are...
No point having her around and wishing in her heart that she shouldn't have been with you.. Cos not she's attached and stuck to you cannot go out with him right???

NeonTetra SG

^ 5!

xavier1979 SG

3rd party intrusions are unavoidable sometimes.

It takes a mature love relationship to weather thru these ups and downs.

SuRfBoY SG

The Survival Of The Fittest... Twisted Evil

boy in blues SG

Confused i don't get it..what's that gotta do with market?

boy in blues SG

Neutral i beg to differ..simply because he saw her first will not convince me they should be together instead.

but only for the 2 conditions that #1 he loves her more than i do, and #2 that she will be happier with him than with me.

if i love her more than he does, the devastation of losing her is greater on me than on him..from an objective perspective.

evanesence SG

Confused Isnt this what I said earlier on?!?!
BTW, im a GIRL...

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Originally posted by *evanesence*:

My bf feels the same as u... As for me, Im not too sure cus he's really faithful to me... Not that im unfaithful..
Anyway, I believe that what's meant to be will be... If he wanna leave, no point in beggin him to stay... as his heart is already with her...
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tiggersgd SG

hahaha Mr. Green

evanesence SG

well, u see from a diff perspective from me.. I nv liked being the "bad" gal.. the 3rd party... If he's attached, then he's considered TAKEN & UNAVAILABLE to me...
I cant bear the tot of breaking another gal's heart by taking him away from her.... cus im a girl too and I know how much it hurts...

choco B SG

You can’t control external factors, only yourself. The important thing is to build a relationship that’s strong and happy enough, so that either of you won’t consider anyone else.

choco B SG

And why should he do that? His target's boyfriend is a total stranger and inconsequential. He doesn't owe the boyfriend anything.

You cannot trust the men hovering around your girl... but you should have confidence in yourself, your girl and your relationship.

MushyMaro SG

Tests that what it is...
dun need to worry if you trust your ger man and yourself.
den spoil market? ha ... u seriously need to think about the relationship. seems to me like you not committed enough... Rolling Eyes

naughtee SG

its not guys who do that... even lesbians do that too... they purposely want to be third party to spoil others' relationships...

i have going steady with my girlfriend for quite some years then this ntu lesbian gal came to befriend my girlfriend through some social activities... she knew my girlfriend was attached to me but she still goes ahead wooing my girlfriend... and all the while i thought this ntu lesbian gal was just merely a close friend to my girlfriend... she used my busy times to woo my girlfriend while i was kept away in hectic trainings and overseas training during my national service thus causing my girlfriend to fall for her...

if i had not discovered the matter, i think i would have lost my girlfriend to this ntu lesbian gal unknowningly... the current situation of us is my girlfriend wants to leave her but the ntu lesbian gal refused to accept it by threatening to kill herself... leaving my girlfriend stranded in the middle between the two of us... also causing our relationship to be very strained... it is still a deadlock for us now and i don't know how it will end off... i love my girlfriend thus i forgive her for silly blunter made while i was not in singapore or with her...

my advise or message to all guys and gals out there : please don't go spoil a happy on-going relationship of others.

evanesence SG

Confused I've nv liked lesbians or bis... but if a gal fell for me, my bf wun have to worry about anything...

Yunhaier SG

My sympathy is with you.

Yunhaier SG

WEE-U-WEE!!! Twisted Evil

/me whistle!

Doenitz SG

How would you feel if I purposely try to snatch your partner away???

NeonTetra SG

Twisted Evil

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